Bondage, but what is it? How to practice it properly?

What is bondage?

Bondage is the art of ropes and lacing. Of course, we are very far here from simple shoelaces... but strangely close to marine rope lacing.

The opposition between the dominant, the one who ties the ropes, and the submissive, the one who is tied.

The dominant's pleasure? To see the other offer their complete trust, to be able to appreciate and magnify each part of their partner's body, but above all, to be the sole decision-maker of how this erotic game unfolds.


The submissive's pleasure? To be able to surrender completely into the dominant's hands and let their mind wander freely. To be able to experience pleasure in being touched, in being observed without any guilt, as they have no control over the present moment.

By tying the ropes around your partner's body, according to a precise ritual, you press on certain strategic arteries which cause a wave of pleasure. But be careful to tie them correctly, without pulling too tight, so as not to endanger your partner.

Letting go

Without burdening you with a pompous and boring preamble, it is necessary to address the notion of self-confidence but also confidence in your partner. Without it, the sexual practice of Bondage can quickly turn into a fiasco... And let's not kid ourselves: you deserve better for your Saturday night out.

By feeling completely safe with your partner, you manage to fully let go. And perhaps even reach ecstasy, just like that, sensually with your fingertips...

What equipment to use?

It is better to use bondage rope designed for it. Bondage ropes have undergone a treatment that makes their surface softer, which limits unpleasant friction: the goal is not to chafe your wrists. They can be made of nylon or hemp. Nylon is generally recommended for beginners. Also, to spice things up, you can use leather handcuffs, a bondage collar, or a leash. 

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